Sunday, April 5, 2009

Vicious Circle

It happened with me - don't know it happens with others or not and people can relate it with or not. The confusion is that at times suppose we commit something bad we have done because we know the other person will definitely understand and appreciate that we have told the truth..
But at times I feel we do it because we know we will be out of guilt of doing wrong as well as be able to earn more trust and then we again tell this to same person and the things repeat and with every cycle the trust increases .... Is it corret to earn trust this way even if not than what the way to get out of it ... please help... atleast tell me it happens or not

3 comments:

  1. Well I feel the first step towards it is knowing what you did and realizing it. Once that is done that and there is a desire not to do that bad thing , then we confess and ask others to help us in our struggle.

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  2. All this is correct but the problem here over is not that we repeat the same mistake but for every mistake we know that we will be spared and we just need to commit and that will also make us get more trust ... so in a way it confession become motivation to do bad ...

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  3. 1. Everyone makes mistakes, and only those who love us have the ability to love us despite all the mistakes that we've made....there's nothing called confessing/forgiving when it comes to your loved ones....

    2. Yes, we should learn from our past mistakes...

    3. Trust is a word that has been overused, abused, misused and misunderstood. You reach a stage in life when you can no longer "earn more trust". (Its only when you reach that stage that you are in love :) )

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